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Three weeks since Blue died and I haven't posted in the interim. I've also since got her ashes and haven't looked at them either. Not because it is tough but because I thought Toni was going to look at them with me (it turns out she did but didn't tell me!)

We thought that we had moved my Mum for the last time from Hospital to a care home last week... but she has now developed a chest infection and last night had a fall, WHEN SHE WAS TRYING TO RETRIEVE FRUIT PASTILLES!

Life is bloody ridiculous.

She is back in Hospital and nothing was broken or fractured in her little misdemeanour.

That aside, we've tried to carry on as best we can and family life continues to be a lot of fun! Travis is learning new stuff so rapidly.

I've been able to see the odd great film (Doctor Sleep), the occasional wonderful gig (Jade Bird) and once in a while, get trashed (for Neil and Ben's birthdays in particular). Travis' sleep continues to gradually improve and Toni's parents are both recovering, it could be a LOT worse right now.

Three days till me and Toni's 7th Wedding Anniversary too! Unbelievable!
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So, we put our cat Blue (aka tetchcat, aka twatcat aka Lady Floofingtons) to sleep today:



I've got a lot to thank her for, having grown up in a house free of all pets apart from fish, she showed to me that cats and dogs are more than simply animals, they have individual personalities and that's what I am saddest to lose.

Thousands of cats probably had as fur as phenomenally soft as her's and a face as disgruntled looking as her's but Blue was a one-off, while her sister was placid and sweet natured, Blue had an aura of not giving a fuck and as a result, a habit of garnering attention.

She would fight cats half her age (and win!) but couldn't hunt anything, she delayed us going to Glastonbury Festival once by 2 hours, as she went outside in the middle of the night then decided to hide just out of reach until she was satisfied, she would pile into the bed and burrow under Toni's pyjamas to snooze on her stomach, if something displeased her, she would give a well-defined haughty sniff!

But she also had a caring side, she would lick tears away, if you were crying, come and rest on you if you were down and seemed to recognise that Travis was only a baby, when she could have easily scratched him for his infant behaviour with her, dozens and dozens of times.

She was an amazing cat, I miss her and Me and Toni have cried a lot of tears today.
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And where do I end up? A song from a band who fell out over ten years ago after just one album, gah! Great tune though:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fVfEWJz45ik

Anyway, today I have to do a Counselling presentation on 'Loss and Grief', the night after we rush Blue to the emergency vets and think that it will be the time we put her to sleep, the World's sense of irony remains as keen as ever.

By the way, she is alright, I spoke to the vet and she is undergoing tests today, while they try and rehydrate her (as she stopped eating and drinking..) The World's tetchiest 16 year old Persian cat lives on!
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It's about 12.30AM over here in Manchester, England... I am the genetics behind why our Son can't sleep! Most normal people on a weeknight are sensible and go to bed before midnight, me? I'm watching the fourth quarter of the Thanksgiving NFL game live, as I know I can function pretty well on not that much rest and I had a full 8 hours last night, thanks to Toni's Mum looking after Travis.

Having said that, I've had a productive night, I've bought the cat a Christmas present (yes, really!), I've got my Counselling client notes up to date and I've purchased enough of my favourite beer to last me through the Christmas period..!*

*Although Toni has also got me a Christmas Beer Advent Calendar too, so December is looking grand!

What I meant to come and say, before all these jumbled thoughts from the top of my head hijacked it is... Happy Thanksgiving to all you Americans on my LJ-list! Hope you have seen family and/or friends then eaten, drank and watched all the NFL you can stand today!

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